Right. We're onto something now...
You have the PHPList side straight, I think. You've just replaced whatever PHPList files necessary with the ones in the wp-phplist zipfile.
For Wordpress, there are 3 files you need to think about, and there are only 2 of them in the zipfile. (Talk about a beta release!) The first, is in /wp-content/plugins/wp-phplist/wp-phplist-plugin.php - This is what activates the plugin, and the second is in the same directory, called options-wp-phplist.php. This just enables the plugin options under Wordpress admin - which can be left default.
Finally, you need the "glue" which does the work, and which is missing from the zipfile. Put "wp-phplist.php" in the
root of your Wordpress folder. This is what actually integrates PHPList into your Wordpress theme.
I've re-uploaded the zipfile - download it, and unpack it as before. You should also now have
wp-phplist.php. Make sure you go into the options page at least once, to make sure that your permalinks are created. Then go to
http://your-blog-address/lists/, and admire the goodness
If you can at least get this far, then we can start worrying about the pretty stuff
